Sometimes when you’re trying to understand what someone else’s life is like, it’s cool to have a glimpse of their everyday activities. Ever wonder what foster parents agree to do when they foster a child? Read on.
We had two cutie pies stay with us for short-term respite care. Now I need to return the paperwork that spells out who does what and why.
There’s the foster care agreement. This document says that the County and my family agree that we will provide foster care services to a specific child. It also includes key principles such as “all children deserve a safe environment” and “children do best when raised in families.”
There’s a code of ethics that we agree to abide by. Here are some of the ethics:
- Provide a safe, secure, and stable family environment that is nurturing and free from corporal punishment and abuse and neglect
- Support progress toward achieving the permanency goal identified for the child (that goal is either return to parents, return to extended family or adoption)
- Promote self-respect by providing positive guidance and activities that respect culture, ethnicity, and spiritual preferences
- Support the child in developing knowledge and skills to become a self sufficient and responsible adult
As the foster parents, we agree to:
- Receive the named child
- Agree to keep the County informed of the child’s development, behaviors, and activities
- Agree to confidentiality
- Agree that the child’s social worker can visit the child in our home
- Agree to notify the County in case of a medical emergency
The County agrees to:
- Provide counseling to the child
- Provide consultation and support to the foster parents
- Pay for the child’s health care
- Pay a stipend to the foster parents to cover the cost of the child’s food, clothing, and personal care
There’s also a medical authorization form, which tells medical care providers that we are allowed to seek care for the specific child. For routine care, we can take the child to the doctor or dentist just like you would any kid. We can’t put on the kid on indefinite medication, especially psycho-active drugs (anti-depressent, anti-anxiety, ADHD, etc.). For that, the County and/or parents make the decision. For medical emergencies, we are to take the child to the emergency room right away, but let the County know as they might need a judge to authorize the emergency medical treatment. “Routine” emergencies like a broken arm don’t require a judge, but stuff like an amputation of an arm would require the judge to agree.
All of the those papers are signed when the child is placed in our home. The last paper is where we state how long the child was staying with us. It’s only done after the child has left, because life happens and the child has either stayed longer or shorter than planned. There was a blizzard, so it wasn’t safe to travel. Or the regular foster parents came back early and pick up the child. Etcetera.
We keep a copy of all these papers for our records and send another copy to the County for their records and also to process the payment for the child’s food, clothing, and personal care.
And that’s it. Paper work done.